Musings

Stories, parenting, travel and beyond

Kleptoparasites – 5 animals that surprise you

If the first post in my ididnotknow series that talks about the venus fly trap plant's intelligence to detect live prey was not surprising enough. This post about kleptoparasites is sure going to. Kleptoparasites are animals that habitually steal their food from other...

Tuatara – A 200 million-year-old reptile

My previous ididnotknow post talked about how a potential movement can stall the world economy. In contrast, this sixth post in my ididnotknow series, a 200 million-year-old reptile, has trouble because it decided to stay put. Not evolving with your surroundings may...

Rubber – World economy and a fungus

The fifth post in my ididnotknow series, how about a 'doomsday is around the corner' kind of story? It is about a legacy that still haunts us. Legacy issues get created when unrelated events get interlinked. The post may spark interest in reading about Henry...

Antonov – Large plane

The fourth post in my ididnotknow series is about an airplane which broke all record in heavy lifting and remains unchallenged for decades. Even though it did not fulfill the original purpose it was built for three decades ago, the airplane and the company...

Death Valley – Unique car testing

This third post in my ididnotknow series is about an unlikely use of a harsh environment by a multi-billion dollar industry. It is surprising to read how this has been a regular practice for years. This post will give you a subtle message to think out of the box...

APOPO – Pouched Rat

This week's post and second in my ididnotknow series is an exciting story around how to solve crises by innovatively using a locally available resource. You will be surprised to know the amount of money and impact this indigenous approach has made....

Venus Flytrap

Well, now that I am a regular to LinkedIn for various reasons. I felt there is this bit of fun element missing in my feed. Maybe my network is to be blamed for it 😊. So a little social experiment to see if there is an audience here for some fun moments. I am going to...

How and when did frogs start to hop?

“Now this story cannot go on like this, we have to stop and give it an end,” said the elderly frog in their weekly council meeting. All the wise and knowledgeable members of the frog council gathered around a small fire they had set up to keep them warm for the night....

The Phoenix Family 

Share my experience as a single parent so far in a bid to help fellow single parents or bring a smile in them at the least. 

The Phoenix Family 

Emotional upheaval

Aug 26, 2017

Last week I was watching my regular reality TV show when I started feeling a change in my mood. I was beginning to relate one of the characters on TV with my late wife. Then out of nowhere a flood of emotions, mostly sadness and anger, ensued. This is not the first time that I […]

The parental guilt

Jan 26, 2017

“Oh crap! I should not have done this to him”. “May be this would not have happened had I not been a single parent”. “He does not have anyone other than me”. Invariably all parents go through the “Oh my God! Am I a bad parent?” feeling. And single parenting sometimes has the effect of […]

Pamper your kids with choice

Oct 17, 2016

“Daddy, why did you bring me birthday cake that looks like a game of scrabble? You should have made it a cake that looked like Scotland Yard instead”. Now that was one of the more recent complaints I got to hear from my son who is spoiled for choice. Nevertheless, that pushes me to invent […]

Single parent’s balancing act

Aug 9, 2016

‘Do not go soft on your son thinking he has only you’, advised my son’s pediatrician after I got into my single parenthood.  You will have to be strict with him whenever required. This was very hard for me to digest initially, how can I set rules or raise my voice on a 6 year […]

Yearning for a social circle

Nov 24, 2015

Some of the best advice I received during my initial days of second bachelorhood is take a break, go out and be with friends. I tried it. But the friend circle I had was limited. The friends with whom I did not have much touch with during married days, I did not get the same […]

Kids need your time

Jan 12, 2016

I’d say most of us are a part of this rat race, watching our peers grow. Why do I feel so? I was, or rather I am party to this rat race. The cost of living is high, my peers buy houses, inflation… run the race, earn more… push working hours, impress boss, get a […]

Single parent’s assurance to kid

Nov 24, 2015

“Daddy, I do not want to talk about it”, was my then 6 year old’s response when I asked him if he missed his mother. I was worried he was suppressing his grief and needed to be more expressive. It all started when his class teacher noticed he was making more than usual drawings in […]

Breaking news of death to your child

Oct 18, 2015

Year 2013- My son was 6 years old and was attending school. I was with the doctor. The doctor held my hand and said it was over. Your wife is no more, please start informing your family – was his message. The first thing which struck me was how was I going to disclose this […]

Embrace your emotions

Sep 17, 2015

Most of us who become bachelor(ette) the second time around, are often told that it is going to be okay. ‘Time will heal the loss/separation’,’just get busy’, ‘divert your attention’…..   I feel otherwise. The more you ignore the fact that you are angry or sad about this phase of your life, the more it is going to have a […]